16 Things Every Girl Wishes A Guy Would Do On Their ‘First Night’ Together.
Dating is not easy! Anyone who has ever tried their hand at dating knows this to be true. The first step is to actually get the date…after that you have to figure out how to act, what to say, what to do, where to take the girl, etc. It’s hard stuff!
If you’re a guy and you are reading this, you will probably thank us later for all of the info you are about to get. If you’re a girl, get ready to applaud, shout amen, and thank us for getting this info out there for all of those men you’ll someday end up dating.
Let’s face it…if you guys are going to have a first night together, you may want to make it through your first day to start…if you flop the date, we can almost guarantee you will not get to experience that “first night.” Take our advice and get to know the girl ahead of time. What do we mean by this?
Compliment her! Girls love to be complimented. Most girls spend at least a little time preparing for a first date, whether it’s getting her makeup just right, fixing her hair, or picking out the perfect thing to wear. By complimenting her appearance (and personality), you will likely have a successful date.
Ask her questions. The worst date ever is when you feel like the person you are with only wants to talk about himself. Sure, it’s fine to share things about you as well, but it should be a two-way street. Both of you should be asking questions and getting to know each other. This will also show her that you care and are interested in her. Now, if you manage to make it to the first night…you’ll need some tips for the bedroom as well. For starters, the last thing you should do is go for it right away. Be slow and steady…it’s a marathon not a race.
Make her laugh. That first night doesn’t have to stay awkward or uncomfortable. By embracing the fact that it is awkward and uncomfortable at first and laughing about it, you will lighten the mood in a positive way. It’s no fun if you are both stressed and nervous the whole time. Laughter is key to having a great first night.
If you are confident and know you have a lot of amazing moves to show off in the bedroom, take it slow. Don’t bring them all out on the first night because then what will you have left to show off later? Save some excitement for next time.
Communicate. The absolute worst thing you can do on your first night together is be silent and not speak up when you want to. The best advice for having a great sex life is to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. If you do this, we guarantee you will have a great time! Try not to overstay your welcome. Just because the two of you slept together doesn’t mean you are welcome to stay there all night. Pick up on the vibes that are being sent out the best you can. If you feel like she wants you to stay, do it! If you have a feeling you are about to be shooed out, it’s probably in your best interest to go ahead and make your exit in a polite way. Remember…
